I studied about personal space little in CS class.
I was very interested in, so I read some books about personal space.
What is the personal space?
It is kind of realm which we can’t see.
If we are invaded into our personal space by someone,
We feel uncomfortable.
If we talk with someone with long distance,
we can’t hear their voice and tell their look,
but if we talk with short distance,
we feel uncomfortable.
That is why, it is important and hard for us
to take appropriate distance.
So, what should we do?
It is said if we talk with our friend, 45~70 cm is
Appropriate distance.
This distance is subtle distance whether one person can touch or not.
Human beings tend to feel uncomfortable
if he is touched by someone who has deep relationship,
such as family, lovers.
So, if you talk with your friend, you had better take this distance first.
Then you have to look for more appropriate distance for them.
It is one of the skills of good communication. (175 words)
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I've read an article about "personal space" a few years ago.
Yeah, it's very hard to keep a good distance between someone and us, but it'll be comfortable if we just be aware of the "personal space"!
hi miki,
i didnt know that we have appropriate distance with such a clear figure.
is that true that we feel uncomfortable when we are touched even by family or lovers? oh, we need much physical contact!!
ayako
I was also interested in the class very much. I was also surprised that friend could make me feel uncomfortable because of only the distance!
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